A big hug

We all go through personal relationships and the feelings we develop through our experiences. Even the toughest relationships have the seed idea for our growth and develpment. The ultimate paradox of human relationships is that " You have no need for a particular other in order for you to experience, fully, Who You Are, and without anther,... you are nothing"... Take a deep breath, let this sit with you for a second. Imagine you are looking at a mirror. As you look closely at your beautiful face, you realize that there is something on the right corner of your chick. A little stain you picked from somewhere. As you notice this, your immediate reaction is to wipe your face. You raise your right hand and wipe your face. Notice which side you are Really cleaning. It's the Left side of your actual face because of the illusion from the mirror you just saw yourself from. We see in others what we really want to see in ourselves. Sometimes this turns into expectations instead of bringing our full hundred percent in a relationship. A relationship is an opportunity for you to bring your absolute completeness forward to another person. An opportunity to bring out your best Self. When you see something wrong outside, instead of immediately trying to fix others, look at yourself, the stain is on your face, not on the mirror. Here is a paradox and the opposite of what you see, or experience, yet without others you are 'NOTHING'. How? Take your right hand and put it on your heart. Which side is it on? In most people, your heart sits in the left side of your chest cavity. What happens when you fall in love with another human being or you see someone you truly adore? You want to hug them, embrace them, and show your affection to them. You feel most complete in the moment you embrace the other in your arms. Notice what happens as you hug another human being. The part of you that is empty, the right side of your chest, becomes one with the part of the beloved that has their heart sitting there. Another opposite and paradox that makes us whole, perfect, and complete in the presence of a beloved. Both hearts connect literally in the same space. The feelings of love, passion, peace, and joy overflow in this connection. We become ONE. Take a look at a mirror today and send yourself a big message of love. Go up to your loved ones and give them a big hug. Let this paradigm shift and paradox do it's wonder. Namaste...

Affirmation: "I bring out the best in you as you bring out the best in me. I am living, moving, and having my being in God. Life affirms it's beauty through the prism of my thoughts. My words are powerful, yet gentle. My joy in internal and eternal. I am available, open, and receptive to more prosperity than I can imagine. Healing is the order of my day. Love is the language my soul speaks to me and guides me in all of my relationships.".

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